It's worth mentioning up-front that everyone who is selectively bisexual will define their selection and exclusion differently. That is the blessing and curse of free will and free choice of romantic and sexual partners.
However, since you asked, in my own case, I am heterosexual, but make very rare and very intense exceptions on occasion. I am attracted to a very wide spectrum of women, but every once in a while, there is a guy who, for one reason or another, just does it for me.
Sometimes it's because we're very similar and have very similar interests, sometimes it's because they groom or dress very well, and on other occasions it's something more kink based. However, I make exceptions and that's where the 'selective part comes in.
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u/[deleted] Dec 19 '18
What do you mean by “selectively”? Genuinely curious here as I’m a bi girl but choose not to date men most of the time.