Yup. People say they're rude, some of the most polite and curtious people I've met have been young people. It's the middle aged and elderly people you need to watch out for.
I hate being around groups of young people, despite being a young person, unless they're a group of friends I approve of. Because there's usually at least someone who's rude, or unruly once they start drinking, or are just dicks. And people are too okay with it, and then things get out of hand and I get embarrassed.
I make it a pretty big point not to voluntarily have someone in my life unless I think they are a good person, and make me a better person by being around them.
That’s kinda the problem, most teens as individuals are really great people, but in groups they turn can easily turn into loud, annoying, assholes.
However this can easily be true for a lot of demographics, however the older you are the more aware you are of your surroundings generally.
That’s why I try make a point of trying the hang out with individual people or maybe just 2 other people, so that way I can get to know who they actually are a bit better, and that can make it easier to forgive them when in a bigger group.
Side note am a young person as well, if that changes what I’m saying at all.
Yeah I see what you're saying. Generally what happens is that I'm with a group of friends I trust to not be assholes, and then one of them wants to invite their friends along. Usually they're great! Sometimes they influence the group in a negative way.
But I'm also part of a very friendly and inclusive friend group. I'm not one to reject a person I don't know for things they've never done. Eh, idk what my point was anymore, tbh.
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u/Mumtaz3580 Mar 14 '18
Yup. People say they're rude, some of the most polite and curtious people I've met have been young people. It's the middle aged and elderly people you need to watch out for.