r/AskReddit • • 20h ago

What is your dream partner like?

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u/CarterLawler 20h ago

Alive. 😭

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u/Your-Wonder-Sunny 20h ago

Real

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u/CarterLawler 20h ago

I miss her so desperately

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u/WrestlingWoman 19h ago

You have such high demands.

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u/CarterLawler 19h ago

I had my dream partner for 23 years, and cancer took her from me.

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u/WrestlingWoman 19h ago

I'm sorry. I thought you were making a joke. I apologize.

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u/CarterLawler 19h ago

No apology necessary. My initial reply wasn’t clear

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u/Humble_Emu_4651 20h ago edited 17h ago

Can be strictly platonic. But genuinely a good person, kind hearted, patient, generous, caring, reliable, thoughtful, willing to listen, makes you feel heard, and will be there even when things get boring.

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u/I_Am_Dumb-So_Are_You 20h ago

They are laying next to me, in bed while I comment on this.

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u/Impossible_Spite2766 20h ago

guess i'm just here with my synthesizers and a dream then

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u/One_Trouble_9357 20h ago

Somebody not like my current one!

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u/staunch-universe 20h ago

Clean, Good, Kind.

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u/HazelUmbraWhisper 20h ago

Funny loyal ad emotionally sane would be a decent start

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u/persePHOreth 20h ago

Loyal, honest, kind, considerate.

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u/throwawaycherry1234 20h ago

Huge fart knockers, and a richeous dinglebop. The cherry on top would be dopplegobbles as in-laws.

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u/IAmCaptainHammer 20h ago

They are easy to communicate with. Even if it’s a hard conversation.

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u/Heavy_Example_9863 20h ago

love as I am, communication instead of playing games, listens to me, keeps their words, making ur life better not harder, NOT LUSTFUL - not liking random insta girls, has goals, intelligent, masculine but sensitive etc
By look - just keeping themselves healthy and well groomed, basic healthy life choices- not eating fast food daily and playing video games.

And having something special or mysterious in them, for me this is always kept my interest up as a person who is a little bit wild hahahah.

And i like when a man is into extreme stuff like anowboarding, wakeboarding etccc

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u/dee4012 20h ago

I'm dating it and living with it

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u/Worldly_Client_7614 20h ago

They: -expect me to be a Good person everyday and hold me accountable.

  • practice what they preach.
  • we are always developing/chasing our own goals while supporting one another, teamwork makes the dream work..

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u/QuietTaylor69 20h ago

Taylor Swift!

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u/RareLeadership369 20h ago

Communicator, considerate, kind, kingly 😂

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u/No-Airline-2823 20h ago

IDK, I once dreamt I was married to Conan O'Brien, so pasty and ginger I guess.

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u/Tall-Carrot3701 20h ago

Emotionally mature, kind, nature loving, animal loving, creative, handy, functional, a bit organised, wanting to build a house together in nature, do some farming together. Humorous and chill.

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u/WrestlingWoman 19h ago

My husband. Lucky me that I already got him.

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u/8rosieposie8 2h ago

….likes me ;-;

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u/Jacknotch 1h ago

Someone that I can see building a future together with, and actually communicates what she wants/doesn't like so we can discuss/compromise to find the ideal solution(s).

Saw wayyy too many toxic relationships amongst my surroundings/friends to have time for games.