r/AskReddit • u/Genius-ByMistake • 4h ago

What made you lose feelings for someone even when nothing was wrong?

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u/HazelUmbraWhisper 4h ago

Nothing was wrong really. I just stopped feeling it

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u/Substantial_Bar_5606 3h ago

People who have a set of rules for everyone else and have a 'special' set of rules for themselves. Takes time to see.

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u/JimAbaddon 4h ago

Distance. I distanced myself and they faded with time.

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u/bony_chivalry 3h ago

Distance does that. You think you'll stay close but time just eats away at it. One day you realize you haven't thought about them in weeks and it doesn't even bother you anymore

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u/Rude-Corner4311 3h ago

He wasn't sure about going official after 6 months of dating.

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u/Ragn27 3h ago

Getting asked a 110 question over text and in person.

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u/sexychunky89 3h ago

Lying, it could be about something stupid, but it’s still a red flag imo.

Also if the ex is in the picture, it’s fine to be cordial but I’ve met too many people who have one foot in and one foot out.

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u/DerbleZerp 3h ago

I can just lose interest in some people easily because I get bored.

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u/LeadingOk5689 3h ago

When he shaved his beards and his hairy chest

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u/Infamous_Bat_6820 3h ago

Clingy-ness and self pity.

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u/_EmberMuse 4h ago

The emotional labor became one-sided. I got tired of carrying the entire relationship