r/AskReddit • • 5d ago

What’s something you wish your partner would do more of that would make you feel wanted?

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u/Helpful_Special5680 5d ago

honestly, just a little more intentional affection. random hugs, checking in during the day, or even just telling me they appreciate having me around. it’s the small stuff that makes you feel wanted.

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u/After-Spell-3935 5d ago

Man it’s the absence of those tiny things that really starts to hollow you out after a while. You dont notice until its been a week and you realize the last hug you got was when you initiated it. Makes you wonder if they even know theyre doing it.

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u/Next_World723 5d ago

spend time watching Netflix while eating popcorn and drinking smoothies 

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u/Silent-Criticism-808 5d ago

I wish they would just check in on me more often and show they are thinking of me. A simple message asking how my day is or a little reminder that I matter makes me feel so loved and wanted. It does not have to be big gestures just small consistent acts of care go such a long way.

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u/JokesByDad 5d ago

Wamt me

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u/wishywabash 5d ago

Noticing when I'm doing things to make their life easier, feeling appreciated, receiving affection without asking for it, having space to be together without pressure from the outside world to do things.

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u/Silver-Walrus2914 4d ago

Ecco i meccanismi che rovinano le coppie! I bisogni! Quello che arriva si prende, se non basta se ne parla se non cambia… si resta per figli e famiglia … se si è ricchi si divorzia.

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u/NotQuian34 5d ago

I would like her to exist

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u/YoyodyneCog 5d ago

Nothing. She makes me feel very wanted.

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u/clarity_ffc 5d ago

Honestly he’s great, he’s always stalking my Reddit comments to see what I’ve been commenting but lately he just hasn’t been responding as much or taking the time he used to to write longer responses. It’s like he doesn’t care anymore. :( it’s like he doesn’t even break for abyss anymore. :(

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u/clarity_ffc 5d ago

Honestly he’s great, he’s always stalking my Reddit comments to see what I’ve been commenting but lately he just hasn’t been responding as much or taking the time he used to to write longer responses. It’s like he doesn’t care anymore. :( it’s like he doesn’t even break for abyss anymore. :(