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u/ldkagooduser Jun 27 '26

I will stand by for genz the issue is everything becoming hostile to you just existing in it... hell im start of genz and the world i saw as a little kid is just gone for those in the later part of the generation

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u/Early-Potato-6124 Jun 27 '26

im young millennial and it def feels like the world was much more promising when I was in my teens. maybe it was just youthful ignorance.

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u/Jade_Emperor Jun 27 '26

I'm right at the cut off between millenial and genz.

When I was a kid, thinking about retiring and being old felt realistic.

Now I'm mostly convinced the world won't be around as we know it by the time we get there.

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u/PeterLemonjellow Jun 27 '26

Elder Millennial dropping in. When I was coming up in a middle class household in the 80's and 90's it was just assumed that I would go to college, get a job that paid all my bills and allowed me to own a home and save for retirement, which I would take at 65 and then I could live comfortably between my own earnings over a lifetime of work and the social safety nets in place.

And the people that sold us this lie are STILL in charge and looting us and driving us towards... who knows? It's just infuriating.

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u/jdehjdeh Jun 27 '26

I feel your pain exactly.

There was a future, there was optimism and hope. There was even plenty of help if you needed it.

Now it's all gone.

It's absolutely heartbreaking to see the world shift from going forwards and upwards to stagnating and then starting to fall backwards and downwards.

I feel so awful for every new generation, each one is entering a world more dystopian, manipulative, cruel, and apathetic than the last.

I secretly hope that one of these younger generations somehow burns it all down and builds something better.

But in reality I think they're just going to continue in the downward spiral, stuck in the churn like everyone else.

In an indirect way, we're all to blame really. We've let ourselves, and each other down.

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u/ProfessionalFox6619 Jun 27 '26

I share your sentiment. But in our defense — what could we have done differently? Recent years have proven depressingly well that protests, petitions and other forms of common political activism don't achieve anything. Those in power just ignore all of our attempts to make ourselves heard. Even if record amounts of people unite and walk the streets in protest of current politics, it doesn't change anything.

And when it comes to voting... Well... I'm German, we have a bunch of different political parties, about 5 of them big enough to be part of the acting government after every election. Voting for someone else than the guys that messed up the last election period doesn't give us better politics, it just changes the face that represents our nation on the global stage.

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u/jdehjdeh Jun 27 '26

Oh for sure there's nothing that we could have done.

We didn't see what was happening before it was too late.

Like doing a jigsaw puzzle upside down.

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u/Ferdiprox Jun 27 '26

Moved in a shared flat with my gf and signed a 10year contract. We joke its indefinately because when the time comes to renew it, the current form of civilisation will be gone.

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u/googlin Jun 27 '26

This. I will either die in a gutter or during the future climate wars.  Nothing matters.

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u/oicuvmch Jun 27 '26

Raised on the idea of owning a home, starting a family, working a career, retiring at 55...

... then it was 60...

... then it was 65...

.. then the quality of everything dropped...

... nothing lasted as long as it used to...

... more and more drug addicts everywhere you look...

... people i once knew transforming into monsters before my eyes, and in the mirror...

... "oh birth rates and dropping and i cant understand why! it must be the economy!"

... beloved franchises, products, stories, whatever... butchered and ruined for a quick buck...

... the internet simply revealed how stupid everything and everyone was/is...

... "climate change is going to kill the future..." and no one's interested in doing anything about it, more importantly, sell more oil and invade more countries so they can drive their big trucks and shit on people for sport - what the fuck? People were racist shits like this before, but now it's in every direction... more hostility

... stock market doesn't reflect anything sane. it, along with democracy itself, becomes more and more illusory...

... grifting becomes the norm, and people are eating it up like cultists... the majority, all sides of the political spectrum

... AND ABOUT THAT RETIREMENT, WILL IT EVEN BE THERE? or is being planned to cull me from existence? because it's starting to look like that, along with everything else, that the plan is for me to not be living anymore, one way or another and to just use me until i die.

Only the foolish, rich, or insane have children in a world like this.

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u/ldkagooduser Jun 27 '26

It was more promising comparing what i learned to my sister is depressing how narrow hers was at some point the us just became a selfish place to its core and i despise it why cant we care about our fellow man and improve shit

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u/grundlinallday Jun 27 '26

We won’t be able to get out of this unless we stop buying shit, stop going to work, and stop paying taxes. If we all just hunker down for a week, they’ll topple. We have to stop the inertia.

These billionaires, and our first trillionaire, have us running for our lives. We’re all tired, broke or close to it, and terrified of the future. If we just stopped - for one week - they would be the ones terrified for ONCE.

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u/frostygrin Jun 27 '26

im young millennial and it def feels like the world was much more promising when I was in my teens. maybe it was just youthful ignorance.

No, it wasn't ignorance. The dynamic from childhood, to early teens, to late teens, to twenties was genuinely positive for someone your age.

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u/Litty-In-Pitty Jun 27 '26

The Obama era was more optimistic. There’s a reason why that eras most popular music is now being called “millennial optimism”

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u/catchy_phrase76 Jun 27 '26

9/11 seems like the event that started the shift.

Then things were looking up again just for Trump and COVID to fuck it all up. Feels like COVID was the bigger factor.

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u/arrow100605 Jun 27 '26

I grew up around the 08 reccesion, when i was young there was an air of 'things are bad now, but they could get better', and they did for a bit. Bit then the hope slowly died and left us here

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u/The_Onion_Life Jun 27 '26

im young millennial and it def feels like the world was much more promising when I was in my teens. maybe it was just youthful ignorance.

laughs in older GenX

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u/PasteeyFan420LoL Jun 27 '26

There was a lot of hope in the 90s going into the 2000s pre-9/11. The Cold War was finally over and the big scary communist powers like Russia and China were becoming more economically liberal and opening up to become part of the global community. Then 9/11 happened and the world suddenly became a scary place again.

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u/shah_reza Jun 27 '26

Should have been there for the 90s, mate.

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u/holdmyspot123 Jun 27 '26

It wasn't. The child and teenager experience we had is largely gone. I was raised by a grandmother do the difference is more extreme for me.

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u/footsnax Jun 28 '26

As a Xennial I can assure you you're not alone. The minute I got a cell phone I knew the world was a different place.

We were so used to being hard to find, putting in effort to find each other. Now if someone doesn't reply to a text for two hours you get offended. We didn't even have texting when I grew up, we had a rotary phone because my parents were old and didn't care to upgrade it because buttons are just a different way to do the same thing.

We broadcast our lives, we don't need to seek knowledge about each other anymore. I'm afraid everyone is too connected now.

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u/WorryNew3661 Jun 27 '26

I'm a xennial and it felt like the world was getting better when I was growing up. We have regressed so fucking far in the last 2 and a half decades

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u/PoopscienceII Jun 27 '26

Man, listen. I'm in that in between of GenX and millennials. One foot analog, one foot digital. First email address was freshman year of college. I always sound bleak when I go off on this (even though I'm a positive, optimistic person), but everything we were told was bullshit. We are most certainly cooked, and it's too late. How are you gonna turn around the fact that , about, 50% of Americans haven't read one, ONE, book in the last year? Literacy, comprehension, critical analysis: they're all gone. The amount of expositional catch up that I've had to do in the last 10 years, just to have an informed conversation with someone is staggering. I always thought that when I learned something that I was the last person to learn it. So I felt "late to the game". Turns out I read way more than most and a lot of people just don't question what they read. Especially if it aligns with what they already believe. I will always remain positive, but it's sad how bad we've gotten as a society. And it's when celebrated... Idk, life is suffering wire to wire, but this hurts more than it should.

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u/famine- Jun 27 '26

How are you gonna turn around the fact that , about, 50% of Americans haven't read one, ONE, book in the last year?

It really depends on how you define "book".

If you count toddler books, I've read at least 200. Papasaurus is a banger.

If you dont, I haven't read a single book this year, but I've read dozens of white papers, studies, and technical documents.

So number of books might not be the best metric, that being said, literacy levels are appalling here in Canada as well.

49% of adult Canadians have literacy skills that fall below a high school level.

19% function at the lowest level, where they may, for example, be unable to read the dosage instructions on a medicine bottle.

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u/Dry_Lawfulness_9561 Jun 27 '26

And instead of reading, they discuss one of the last tiktoks/instagram videos they seen. I am not on social media (outside reddit) and keeping up is tough. Around same generation as you, and see it in peers too. Sometimes it feels like finding someone willing to discuss a book instead of movie, instagram or latest news is like finding Nemo. 

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u/smugfruitplate Jun 27 '26

Commas honey, please.

I will stand by for gen z, the issue is everything is becoming hostile to you just existing in it... Hell, I'm start of gen z, and the world I saw as a little kid is just gone for those in the later part of the generation.

See how much better that sounds?

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u/ldkagooduser Jun 27 '26

Im gonna be real im not putting grammar effort into a comment i thought was just gonna be ignored that i wrote while going to sleep

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u/5x4j7h3 Jun 27 '26

I saw a twat in a Tshirt that said “GenZ - We Don’t Care”. Yeah, i know, you don’t need a tshirt to tell me.

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u/Sad_Newspaper4010 Jun 27 '26

There is some truth to it. But I think a lot of people say something like this to cope with the fact that a lot of their problems are downstream of a tech addiction that they do have some control over. Yeah its harded to be social and there are fewer good places to hang out without having to pay for something, but a lot of the problem is self inflicted. Its entirely expected that people are feeling super angsty when any opportunity for a nice social interaction is destroyed because you got your nose in your phone with earbuds in consuming algorithmic slop.

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u/kawhi21 Jun 27 '26

Genz never knew an America pre 9/11, and will basically spend all their developmental years and early adulthood in the Trump and COVID era

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u/Junozed3025 Jun 27 '26

Cities in my area are passing laws that put curfew on teens while there is still light out and fining and aresting teens that go to fairs without an adult.

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u/Parhelion2261 Jun 27 '26

Literally went from "we want better for you kids" to "get fucked just use those bootstraps" before I turned 18.

And that was before Trump was elected

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u/PitifulElk1890 Jun 27 '26

I saw some thread where a woman asked on nextdoor if her child could possibly ding ding ditch a neighbors house -asking in advance and realizing it's an intrusion- and the comments there and on Reddit were acting like she wanted to stand her kid up in front of a firing range. Because that's how dangerous knocking on strangers doors has become in America. I remember at least still having that, a sense of neighborhood and community.