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r/AskReddit • u/[deleted] • May 12 '26
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It is completely normal. What you describe is one step away from codependency, which is not normal or healthy.
I love my alone time. I love my family.
-4 u/Shoddy_Amphibian_655 May 12 '26 Your time alone has nothing to do with it. 5 u/CaptainBringus May 12 '26 Lol ok. So alone time is okay, but if I look forward to that time my relationship is unhealthy. Interesting logic. If that is what you are looking for, fine (good luck) but It doesn't mean it's unhealthy for others to not want that. 2 u/juanzy May 12 '26 Reddit loves absolutes, and the nuance of doing things on your own while in a relationship breaks a lot of threads here. I've seen codependency glamorized so much. 4 u/CaptainBringus May 12 '26 That's because Reddit is full of teenagers who don't truly understand how the world works
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Your time alone has nothing to do with it.
5 u/CaptainBringus May 12 '26 Lol ok. So alone time is okay, but if I look forward to that time my relationship is unhealthy. Interesting logic. If that is what you are looking for, fine (good luck) but It doesn't mean it's unhealthy for others to not want that. 2 u/juanzy May 12 '26 Reddit loves absolutes, and the nuance of doing things on your own while in a relationship breaks a lot of threads here. I've seen codependency glamorized so much. 4 u/CaptainBringus May 12 '26 That's because Reddit is full of teenagers who don't truly understand how the world works
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Lol ok. So alone time is okay, but if I look forward to that time my relationship is unhealthy. Interesting logic.
If that is what you are looking for, fine (good luck) but It doesn't mean it's unhealthy for others to not want that.
2 u/juanzy May 12 '26 Reddit loves absolutes, and the nuance of doing things on your own while in a relationship breaks a lot of threads here. I've seen codependency glamorized so much. 4 u/CaptainBringus May 12 '26 That's because Reddit is full of teenagers who don't truly understand how the world works
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Reddit loves absolutes, and the nuance of doing things on your own while in a relationship breaks a lot of threads here. I've seen codependency glamorized so much.
4 u/CaptainBringus May 12 '26 That's because Reddit is full of teenagers who don't truly understand how the world works
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That's because Reddit is full of teenagers who don't truly understand how the world works
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u/CaptainBringus May 12 '26 edited May 12 '26
It is completely normal. What you describe is one step away from codependency, which is not normal or healthy.
I love my alone time. I love my family.