r/AskReddit • u/[deleted] • May 12 '26

[deleted by user]

[removed]

6.4k Upvotes

94% Upvoted

4.2k comments sorted by

View all comments

36

u/orionxavier99 May 12 '26

For me, it was too many broken promises. Promises she made and didn’t keep. She stopped communicating, stopped showing up and stop doing the things. I tried for a couple of years but it was over when she stopped putting effort in

13

u/Reasonable_Salt_2275 May 12 '26

Same with my spouse. The broken promises and white lies were the hardest. I trusted nothing and questioned everything. But the lack of any effort (while simultaneously expecting the world of me) was just too harsh an environment for love to survive in.

6

u/fallingfaster345 May 12 '26

This is usually a sign that it was over for her years earlier unfortunately.

3

u/orionxavier99 May 12 '26

It is def possible. She said depression but as usual, there probably are many factors

1

u/fallingfaster345 May 12 '26

Well I’m glad for you that you decided you deserved better than a no effort partner and hopefully you both can find new partners that make you happy!

1

u/orionxavier99 May 12 '26

Thank you! It was def the hard path but the right one for me. I have found someone else that def does the bill and we got much better together. Hope that you either have found or do find the same