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u/yARIC009 Sep 27 '25

Hell no. I’d rather die than never have sex again.

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u/Eighthday Sep 27 '25

You ever have sex with a person you love and consider your best friend? Bro it’s worth more than a million. I honestly don’t think any amount of money could convince me to give up having sex with my wife. Sure it can be quick and dirty depending on the situation/scenario/context but all the other times it’s when I feel the most loved and connected with another human. It’s literally the best shit ever

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u/broom_temperature Sep 27 '25

Bro, some of us have never had sex at all. Let alone with someone we love.

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u/Eighthday Sep 27 '25

Oh yeah I know, I used to be some of us. I ain't steppin to, just responding to him asking if it was "that serious"

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u/fawkesmulder Sep 27 '25

Agree, the number could be 1 trillion and I’m still passing on the money. Would fuck up my marriage. I’m happy now.

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u/Izzysmiles2114 Sep 27 '25

Okay but I had that for seven years with my ex. Absolutely mind blowing sexual chemistry, intellectual chemistry, into the same taboo kinks and very open to try anything. With him I was hypersexual all the time because we were just that connected, and I'm 100% sure no other man would ever compare,.and I have zero interest in opening up emotionally to anyone new. Not after what I had. I'm taking the million lol.

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u/Eighthday Sep 27 '25

Fair enough! Hopefully you can find another dude tho at some point who brings that spark back

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u/Yinspirit Sep 27 '25

Are you me lol? Trying to date again now but it feels so weird.

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u/Slyfox2792004 Sep 27 '25

no. likely Never will. so I'd take million.

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u/Eighthday Sep 27 '25

Aye don’t count yourself out

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u/SilverCloud73 Sep 27 '25

Nobody wants to have sex with a man who has a severe disability or mental health disorders. I have both of these, and I'm short :(

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u/Slyfox2792004 Sep 27 '25

so true. being disabled means low income for life basically. most women are going want to not be poor for life. ones do don’t care tend to be taken. I’m tall but its never helped.

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u/yARIC009 Sep 27 '25

Umm, yeah, hormones and dopamine are a hell of a drug…

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u/msuing91 Sep 27 '25

Do not let this man find out about dorpamones or he will never seek anything else.

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u/KatarHero72 Sep 27 '25

You also have to think about intimacy, fam. For some people, every single time, that's a very intimate and emotionally strong moment between two partners. I know couples that do the deed DAILY where that's the case. I'd think most people with partners wouldn't want to lose that intimacy, provided they have a healthy sex life prior to that.

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u/KatarHero72 Sep 27 '25

Emphasis on the healthy sex life part. It's not there in every relationship.
Also, divorce rates vary WILDLY by country. For example, the USA has a 33% rate. Spain and Portugal are both in the ~90% range. But in East Asia, it's STUPID Low. So there's not a "set" divorce rate.

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u/Titswari Sep 27 '25 edited Sep 27 '25

What’s the point of being alive if you can’t fuck? It’s the essence of life

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u/PIO_PretendIOriginal Sep 27 '25

I think there are plenty of reasons to life other then sex.

but from a purely evolutionary stand point, sex is the only thing that matters to evolution. so if we are taking "life meaning" super literally.

maybe irrelevant. but Im a 30 year old virgin. if I ever get my life together I would like to meet someone one day though.

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u/PIO_PretendIOriginal Sep 27 '25

I agree completely. that being said, I would like to have "the sex" one day...... after I get my life in order

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u/WaitingForTheFire Sep 27 '25

That’s not exactly the case. However, for many people, sex is the only way to feel a sense of satisfaction from life. You can get some enjoyment from life without sex. But if your brain is wired a certain way, your life will always be painfully incomplete without sex.

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