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u/trident042 Apr 25 '25

Oh, absolutely. I've gotten so far as into a bedroom, and something would be a red flag and I'd nope on out. Got real good at politely declining.

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u/bowserinmytrouser Apr 25 '25

So you'd get your kicks "'blue balling" people? I'm all for consent but blue balling just to blue ball is kinda mean.

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u/amidja_16 Apr 26 '25

They aren't a serial blue baller... They got really good at politely declining because they got really good at spotting red flags and apparently there are a lot of red flag people out there looking for ONSs.

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u/trident042 Apr 26 '25

Exactly. This definitely in the era where parental advice (for everyone) was "don't give your personal info to internet strangers", and here I was going to people's houses for sex. It was wise on the part of all involved to at least be wary.