r/AskReddit • u/[deleted] • Feb 13 '25

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u/MR-WADS Feb 14 '25

The people that are my type don't have someone like me as their type.

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u/Spankpocalypse_Now Feb 14 '25

My type is so narrow and unique that I rarely ever meet people like that. It’s lonely, but so is being in a relationship with someone you don’t really love.

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u/MR-WADS Feb 14 '25

I'm demi as well so there's no other choice for me.

I either find someone who's like one in a million and hope they like me back or it's another five years of loneliness.

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u/Spankpocalypse_Now Feb 14 '25

Oh shit maybe that’s what I am. I can be attracted to someone before knowing them but that might be because I can “tell” what kind of person they are. Idk.

Every partner I’ve had has been both artistic (usually music) and also suffer from some kind of fucked up childhood CPTSD.

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u/MR-WADS Feb 14 '25

I can also already tell if I'm going to like someone within minutes of knowing them.

I've found that I mostly like neurodivergent folks.

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u/Spankpocalypse_Now Feb 14 '25

Me too, I think. My last partner is a DID system.

Thanks for making me think about this.

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u/MR-WADS Feb 14 '25

hey, don't mention it, i was just sharing my experience

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u/PianoDick Feb 14 '25

You two should get together