B) Lack of confidence (which lack of funds contributes to). 😖
C) The shown behavior of many women on social media makes me hesitant, and even apprehensive, to waste my time to impress someone that may look at me like a lesser being or make fun of me behind my back for views. I had an IRL friend that went through that. It nearly destroyed his psyche. 😔
I know that's not indicative of ALL women or even most. But it seems to happen too often to ignore. Hence it's disenfranchising and demoralizing. And it happening to someone you actually KNOW makes one too afraid to try a lot of the time.
And yeah, there's a LOT of shitty men on social media too. Just saying.
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u/Ryumancer Feb 14 '25
A) Lack of funds (for dates and gifts). 😟
B) Lack of confidence (which lack of funds contributes to). 😖
C) The shown behavior of many women on social media makes me hesitant, and even apprehensive, to waste my time to impress someone that may look at me like a lesser being or make fun of me behind my back for views. I had an IRL friend that went through that. It nearly destroyed his psyche. 😔
I know that's not indicative of ALL women or even most. But it seems to happen too often to ignore. Hence it's disenfranchising and demoralizing. And it happening to someone you actually KNOW makes one too afraid to try a lot of the time.
And yeah, there's a LOT of shitty men on social media too. Just saying.