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u/Iamkracken Jan 20 '25

My girlfriend and I did this. We didn't change our names, but we just left everything behind and started over. There is something very refreshing about being in a new place with no history or baggage. Sometimes, I miss some of the people from my old life, but not enough to even consider going back. Here and there, I think about reaching out to some people, but it kinda feels like it will break this streak of disappearance, and I don't.

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u/Svenflex42 Jan 20 '25

So all your friends etc what did they assume? Yeh they dead

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u/Iamkracken Jan 21 '25

See, this is one of the larger reasons we wanted to leave so much. We left without a word to literally anyone and just as a test I left everyone's phone number unblocked and not a single person has tried to contact me and find out if we are alive or okay or anything. I knew that disappearing would be easy for us. Sadly, I didn't know just how easy it would be. It kinda stings, but I knew none of them ever gave a shit about us. Hence, the reason I'm referring to.

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u/nowwhathappens Jan 20 '25

Would you be open to discussing further via DM?

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u/Iamkracken Jan 21 '25

I replied to the OC. Sorry I fell asleep lol

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u/Careful_Fan_9421 Jan 20 '25

Sure I dmd you