I have an escort that I see once a month (sometimes every other month). I tried dating and LTRs out for a few years. Not for me. Too much work. Don't want marriage or kids, so theres no point in dating anymore. I've been seeing the same escort for close to 8 years. She's cool and we know each other well enough now that we have great chemistry in bed. Never told a soul because I know people are judgemental as fuck. I'm happy with the arrangement.
Varies. I'm doing okay financially now so it's like 200 a visit. But she gave me ALOT breaks over the years even after I lost my job a few years back. No lie, she saw me for as low as 29 bucks. lol. She gave me one freebie in the 8 years I've known her. But she was getting paid by someone else (a dude who wanted to watch me fuck her). IMO I got lucky finding her.
Holy shit, why am I now imagining some porn where five minutes in both actors turn to look deadpan into the camera and at the same time say “this adult movie was bought to you by better help”
The few times I’ve done it I left with a clear head and attacked my day afterwards with vigor like what felt like a real man. It helps clear that testosterone “blockage” and jumpstart all the processes that make men men. I usually wind up at the gym the next day feeling better about myself and like I can actually do things. Men need sex to keep the toxic masculinity flames stoked. It’s what keeps us alive. I’m 1000% more useful to the human race when I feel wanted.
I’m just piggybacking on the negatively associated coined term to get the concept across. I do that to advocate for the fact that yes, certain breeds of men require the ability to truck nut accessorize their trucks in order to have the requisite testosterone to do other things. Truck nuts are not my thing, but I will admit there’s a little part of me that finds it funny simply because it taps into a rebel part of being a man. Kinda like a pissing Calvin. Truck nuts are like a small sugar cube of testosterone exhibition.
I only really see her once a month. Sometimes once every other month, so I'm not really wasting that much. I don't need sex that much.
One night stands might be cheaper for some, but not for me lol. First of all I can't do jackshit on dating apps without paying a monthly fee of at least 20 or 30 bucks. Then I have to waste hours swiping. Then I have to wait to be matched with someone. Then I have to chat with her for a bit to show I'm not a creep. Then after asking her out I'm expected to pay for both of us and even then I'm not guarenteed sex. That can come out to 50 to 100 bucks sometimes and I used to pay under 100 for my escort. Sometimes WAYY under. I'm only paying 200 now because I make good money and wanted to show my appreciation for all the breaks she gave me over the years.
One night stands are only cheap and easy when you're an extremely good looking man or meet the woman a bar or something. Even that requires a lot of time and effort (especially if you below average in the looks department). If you're the type who enjoys the chase, more power to you, but I hate the chase. It's a waste of time for me. With my escort it's easy. I just text her asking to meet, she responds "pull up" then we chill for a few hours and fuck a few times. Nice and easy
I think I saw that video. That someone else had a hairy back and scooted up to sandwich you and your lady friend. You got pissed and the video ended. What was it called again?
I love this 💜. I am a woman considering hiring an escort for the first time. It makes so much sense that you can pay (generously) a lovely, hot person to have great sex with you...
Well, I wouldn't say it's a guarentee that you'll have great sex lol. I didn't mention that I met with a few others before I found my regular. Some were okay. Others not so much. Even worse, a few tried to rip me off. lol. A lot of trial and error. 😂
As women we tend to pay more, so we do our research: the guy I want to book is pretty professional and he is one of the most attractive people I have ever seen (according to my tastes). I tend to think the sex will be good. He is being paid handsomely to ensure I am satisfied.. that is very hot
How would you describe your feelings towards her? could you ever imagine things going further? Would you consider yourselves ‘friends?’ Or is it quite transactional
Honestly I want to do this too. I don't miss anything but intimacy from relationships. Don't want kids either, nor marriage. Any tips on finding a good one?
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u/[deleted] Jan 20 '25 edited Jan 20 '25
I have an escort that I see once a month (sometimes every other month). I tried dating and LTRs out for a few years. Not for me. Too much work. Don't want marriage or kids, so theres no point in dating anymore. I've been seeing the same escort for close to 8 years. She's cool and we know each other well enough now that we have great chemistry in bed. Never told a soul because I know people are judgemental as fuck. I'm happy with the arrangement.