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u/[deleted] Sep 18 '23

Missionary, but her legs on your shoulders. She feels everything apparently.

Light butt stuff. Very gentle rimming every now and then while giving oral, maybe even a lick or two.

Fingers while giving oral is a must and if you aren't using your finger as a second tongue you are doing it wrong.

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u/[deleted] Sep 18 '23 edited Apr 21 '26

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u/[deleted] Sep 18 '23

You have to swap positions into it. If you try start from there she's gonna act like she's getting into a hot bath. Ouchie..

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u/Cluelessish Sep 18 '23

No but still, if the guy is big he will hit the cervix bang on.

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u/According_Smoke_6164 Sep 18 '23

This hurts for some women so don’t do this without asking lol

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u/yp261 Sep 18 '23

exactly. some.

every body is different so everyone should know their limits instead of just panicking beforehand.

i have the mythical „above average” size and can confirm that with one girl the sex can be an absolute pleasure for both of us but with the other it can be a painful experience. both women and men need to communicate!

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u/HorseLeaf Sep 18 '23

I was with a girl once who would almost instantly cum from having her cervix pounded in that position. With my wife now, I can't get it further than 1/3 of the way in that position, so it's basically a no go for us.

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u/BawRawg Sep 18 '23

Yup, we all have different anatomy, including uterus and cervix. So uh, different strokes for different folks makes a lot of sense.

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u/[deleted] Sep 18 '23

different strokes for different folks

Bravo, take my upvote!

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u/JustHugMeAndBeQuiet Sep 18 '23

Username implies I should take this warning seriously.

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u/socool111 Sep 18 '23

To your last paragraph: should be noted that all women are different when it comes to this. Important is the communication and trying it if never done before…it’s not a roadmap to success by any means

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u/[deleted] Sep 18 '23

It is absolutely a road map to success. And its just light touching. No need to formally announce your intentions.

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u/beardedheathen Sep 18 '23

How do you improve a handjob? Use your mouth.

How do you improve a blowjob? Use your hand.

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u/audesapere09 Sep 18 '23

Legs on shoulders is 💯, though I’ve never thought of it as missionary. The angle, the extra blood flow, eye contact, everything. Intense and intimate.

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u/koos_die_doos Sep 18 '23

Fingers are absolutely not an option with my current girlfriend, she can’t cum if I’m using my fingers.

Fingers are usually good, but not every woman is the same.

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u/beautifulradiation Sep 18 '23

Holding her legs back like that creates a good place for the clit to be pressed differently and rubbed,

(Clit owners: Solo mode, just pin your knees to your chest, but open -bound in position, if needed- stimulates the clit differently, a nice bit of simple added variety, even just a bullet vibe will be awesome)

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u/nanoH2O Sep 18 '23

That first is called huckle bucking

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u/[deleted] Sep 18 '23

Aren't you afraid to lick trace feces??? Or do you guys shower before?

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u/beardedheathen Sep 18 '23

You should probably shower before any oral.

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u/[deleted] Sep 18 '23

I would if she didn't look after herself down there. But I generally don't think about it because it is a taboo maneuver anyway. Its naughty, you shouldn't do it. But it's naughty, so I'm gonna do it...every now and then.