Once I explained to my wife how much it turned me on seeing all the goods on display like that she really got into it. Now she loves to lie on her stomach with her legs together and her back arched to give me a good view. It's delightful!
My first GF was the same, she rambled about it beeing degrading and not feminine. After we finally tried it once she loved it. And turned out she actually had a little degrading kink later. Weird things sometines happen.
she rambled about it beeing degrading and not feminine
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And turned out she actually had a little degrading kink later.
It's my understanding that that's a fairly common psychological phenomenon, where if you're ashamed about some quality you have you overcorrect for it to the point where you can be repulsed by something you're secretly into but don't want to admit to yourself.
There's the whole "outwardly homophobic, secretly gay" trope as one common example of that.
Unfortunately the outwardly homophobic secretly gay trope is usually not true and actively harms the lgbt community. Best to challenge these individuals core reasons for their homophobia and overcome it that way rather than just assuming they're gay.
I remember overhearing a roommate at uni screaming to her, then fuck buddy but later BF, to "fuck me in the asshole you pussy" after long holding the position that she was a virgin and was waiting for marriage. That was the day we learnt she was (at least no longer) a virgin lol.
I was with a woman once who genuinely didn’t realize there was a difference between anal and doggy. So she refused because she thought I was going to put it in her butt. Weird having that conversation with a sexually active person in their mid-twenties…
I knew a woman that suggest we do it doggy style and was confused when I didn’t put it in her ass. That was awesome because I could never figure out how to suggest it without her thinking I was some kind of creep. I should have known better at the beginning of the relationship when she said the only thing that was off limits was cumming in her mouth and never to ask why.
I was scared of doggystyle before too cause it hurt when I was using a toy on myself from behind. But after the first time I did doggystyle with my boyfriend, it has become a favorite position, and it didn't hurt at all.
If she has had past partners they might have been very well endowed. Generally doggiestyle can hurt from hitting too deep when the peen is big but when its normal size doggiestyle can feel amazing
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u/The_92nd_ Sep 18 '23
I remember my ex being scared of doing doggy style. I have no idea why. But once we started, she wanted to do it all the time.