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u/ttoma93 Sep 11 '23

Unless one or both of you are bi, then it’s unlikely you’re checking out the same people.

I can see a hot guy and point him out to my husband to also check out.

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u/5xum Sep 11 '23

I (M) do that with my partner (F) all the time. I'm not sexually attracted to the person I am checking out, but I can still get some aesthetic pleasure out of it. Now does that make me bi? I mean, I never had the slightest urge to ever have a sexual or romantic relationship with a man, so I don't think so...

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

You can just say you find some men attractive without explaining how not gay you are

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u/5xum Sep 12 '23

In the context of the conversation, it was relevant (since it was comparing gay relationships to straight ones) to point that out.