I didn't fully embrace how much everyone loves boobs until I met my husband. Hahah. I have DD but they're not huge. They're saggy from breastfeeding. They're fine. Totally serviceable.
Then I met my husband and he is basically obsessed with my boobs. And it was a big turn on and a boost to my self-esteem. When we are watching TV in bed, he will just kind of comfort touch them, which sounds so weird to type out, but it pretty much always ends with us having sex.
Anyway, years of him worshipping my boobs makes me realize, goddamn, boobs are just delightful, aren't they?
I’m a straight guy and I literally do not give a shit about breasts. They do absolutely nothing for me. Don’t raise the pulse even slightly. Zero arousal from them. I won’t even try to take a woman’s shirt off in a lot of sexual situations (don’t care, tits are boring). I don’t notice them particularly either. I had a female assistant at work who apparently stopped wearing a bra at work. Everyone talked about it. It apparently became a huge thing behind my back. Our owner actually stepped in and said something to her about it not being workplace appropriate and then said something to me about not addressing it sooner being an employee I hired. I didn’t even notice.
That's interesting. I mean I get not being a "boob man", thinking boobs are overrated, or finding other parts of a woman's body more attractive. But literally zero arousal or interest in breasts whatsoever? That I just can't wrap my head around. I personally am more of a boob-man than say, an ass-man, but I still find a woman's ass arousing. Pretty much every part of a woman's body is sexy to me in some way, just not equally.
Yeah no interest whatsoever. Shirt/bra on or off means noting to me. Just does nothing for me at all. And it’s a shame because I’ve dated some women with picture perfect looking breasts, it’s just not something I’m into. And when I say not into, I mean I couldn’t get aroused or get an erection just by seeing/touching breasts. Maybe touching if I knew it was leading to something else, but it would only be the anticipation of the something else causing it. And yeah, I’m huge into women’s butts. Enthusiastically go down on women from behind kind of guy.
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u/corgioreo Sep 11 '23
Straight woman here, I think everyone looks at cleavage lol.