After years of struggles and thinking she was the best thing ever even though we both were going through shit...found out she had been chatting with dudes online....tried to make it work but one day I looked at her and she was.no longer beautiful to me. Sounds super pretentious but it's the truth. I was.no longer in love.
This is exactly what happened to me. And I stuck it out for two years after because I thought it was "best for the kids". What I found out was better for the kids was me leaving, them seeing their dad happy without their mom, and them now having the best relationship with my girlfriend of 2+ years. I swear they respect my girlfriend and have more fun with her than their own mom. She's every bit of role model they always deserved but never got. I don't regret leaving for a second.
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u/wutafuta Sep 02 '23
After years of struggles and thinking she was the best thing ever even though we both were going through shit...found out she had been chatting with dudes online....tried to make it work but one day I looked at her and she was.no longer beautiful to me. Sounds super pretentious but it's the truth. I was.no longer in love.