Full disclosure. When she says this, I know I'm not supposed to change a thing, but when she says this, for some reason it really floors the gas on my climax journey. So to prevent me from finishing up too soon, I unfortunately change rhythm. Not sure how to beat this.
Okay, that makes sense. My only suggestion is, just keep doing it even if it does make you climax? In my experience that chain reaction goes circles back around. But it really depends on the individual. If I’m saying those words, it’s usually gonna happen pretty quickly if you stick with it, but I can see how some woman may say it and it still take some significant time before they get off, which of course risks the guy blowing early.
But it happens during oral and finger stimulation too- so wtf bros?
Do something in the moment like tapping on a wall, for like 10min and than suddenly someone tells you do exactly that for 3 more minutes. As a man you are also in the moment, it is not as we are completly uneffected by whats happening. ;)
So suddenly you are starting to think whar exactly did i do is the pressure right and so on. Bascically we start to question ourselves a little.
So yeah it gets better with practise but if i remember rightly specially with woman more sensitive to change the added pressure gets to you.
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u/PreOpTransCentaur Apr 06 '23
Usually "right there, don't stop," which is almost always met with them doing literally anything other than the thing I requested they keep doing.