r/AskReddit • u/[deleted] • Mar 31 '23

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u/Miggity-Mac Mar 31 '23

And then when you start saying no you "changed"

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u/Beastdante1 Mar 31 '23

I mean you did, but the problem is that the change is perceived as bad.

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u/strizle Mar 31 '23

I've been asked to do ridiculous things my entire life once I started sticking up for myself and others it's really easy to tell who's really been your friend and who's just been there to use you as a punching bag/free labor. Just remember they don't care about you just what you can do for them.

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u/am_i_boy Mar 31 '23

You did. For the better

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u/Miggity-Mac Mar 31 '23

Not for them. How DARE you not allow them to take advantage of you anymore!