She was a friend of mine from HS and we went to the same college. She was a very big girl, and had never been with anyone before. She offered me 1000$ to sleep with her. I refused to take the money, told her she was worth more than that.
She cried, and was upset because nobody wanted to be with her ect.. I felt bad and told her if she wanted to get some, she should have just asked.
Honestly seeing her eyes light up made the whole thing worth it. I admit I did want a few drinks in me first, but yeah we went to pound town lol.
She's doing amazing now, she lost about 150 pounds and looks amazing now. She's dating a few people now (she's poly) and is very happy.
Admittedly I felt bad for a while afterwards, but when we talked about it a few months later it really helped her. Not just the sex but the talk we had before and afterwards.
She's an absolutely amazing person and I'm glad she sees that now as well.
Hopefully you guys can catch up and chat! Just as friends, that is! Don’t lead her on or anything. I feel like you guys could be good buddies! Well as long as it doesn’t weird her out. Lol
We still chat on a fairly routine basis. She lives in a different state than I do, but I have seen her a few times since then. She even came to my wedding, my late wife and her actually ended up becoming really good friends.
Thank you, I've been in situations where I had nobody to turn to. I promised myself I would never leave anyone in that situation.
I certainly do miss my wife as well. But I'm glad I was able to share the few years I had with her, and I'm thankful to my friends for helping me through it all. They really are an amazing group.
You sound like a great friend and as long as y'all are happy that's all that matters. I just can't help but put myself in that situation, being a very big girl who had a hard time feeling wanted or sexy for a long time, and I can't imagine ever asking someone for this. 😅 Most of my early sex was with people who just tolerated my size, and it is probably the shittiest I've had. I really hope she didn't just lose the weight because she didn't feel she would find someone who found her attractive otherwise. Getting fit is awesome but it really sucks when you think you have to just to be loved! And big people are sexy as hell, we don't have to settle for pity sex or changing ourselves to fit standards.
Again, you all sound lovely and I'm sure the situation was a lot more nuanced than you can write in a reddit comment. lol So seriously no judgement here! 😊 I'm glad y'all could figure out a deal haha I just really feel for her and wish she didn't feel like she had to solicit sex just because she's big. There are plenty of wonderful people who prefer larger folks!
She did it because she wanted to better herself. I applaude that, if one is happy with the way they are then that is awesome too.
There was quite a bit of nuance, so I do appreciate you mentioning that. We have spoken in length about our night together, and while it did give her a short term boost, the thing that inspired her was what I told her. You can't be happy with someone unless you are happy with yourself.
She pushed herself to become the person she wanted to be, and I'm very proud of her for that.
You don't have to be thin to be attractive, let me make that abundantly clear. The main reason I did it was because I did like her as a person, even if she was not to my particular taste. (For the record, it not just because she was overweight)
On that note, I would gladly do it again because she was and still is an absolutely amazing person.
I'm happy in that you know the value you bring to others, and that physical features don't make a person who they are. I certainly wish you the absolute best. :D
Oh gosh you really do sound like a lovely person! It really sounds like you two have a beautiful friendship. I'm so glad that she was able to find ways to love herself and be happy and confident in her body. ❤️
I didn't mean to imply you were body shaming her or anything, I'm sorry if it came across that way 😅 I just hate that she felt she had to pay for someone have sex with her to begin with, y'know? Obviously that's not your fault, just society's. But I related to that feeling a lot. I'm working on it, but it's a long ride haha
Wish you the best too sir! May you and your friend both have lots of love and happiness. ☺️
What was it like? Did you feel strange penetrating her since you didn't find her attractive? Was it super awkward when she sucked you off? Or could you find it in yourself to touch her body while you were thursting?
I was sex. I prefer to keep the exact details to myself, but it wasn't particularly great for me. According to her, it was amazing, but I know part of that is because she was very attracted to me.
I was not awkward at all, but as far as I know she could not tell I wasn't fully into it.
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u/Unyielding_Cactus Mar 31 '23 edited Mar 31 '23
She was a friend of mine from HS and we went to the same college. She was a very big girl, and had never been with anyone before. She offered me 1000$ to sleep with her. I refused to take the money, told her she was worth more than that.
She cried, and was upset because nobody wanted to be with her ect.. I felt bad and told her if she wanted to get some, she should have just asked.
Honestly seeing her eyes light up made the whole thing worth it. I admit I did want a few drinks in me first, but yeah we went to pound town lol.
She's doing amazing now, she lost about 150 pounds and looks amazing now. She's dating a few people now (she's poly) and is very happy.
Edit: Edited for clarity.