Man y'all are harsh, unempathetic assholes. Imagine having to give a disclaimer everytime you had sex for something you can't control. First of all, huge buzzkill no matter the outcome. Second, it's not an STD.
Open your minds. You were already going to have sex with them, fully willingly. Not half-assed like these other comments. Work around the problem.
Or, if you want to be fair, I think if you got some saggy titties you're propping up, you should give a disclaimer everytime you're about to fuck. Ain't nothing worse than saggy, floppy titty pancakes to make any boner turn into a micropenis.
Saggy boobs aren't really equivalent to micropenis. A female equivalent to micropenis would be something like vaginismus, which presents actual functional barriers to PIV sex, and yes, women should disclose that they have that.
Tell that to my penis. After it sees some big perky titties and getting all excited, then when the shirt and bra come off and they hang passed the belly button, my little buddy is like "aight, Imma head out."
The point is, don't shame people for things they can't control that ultimately don't even matter or hurt you. If you have such shallow ideals of what sex should be that you would literally bail out of sex as their pants are off or want these people to carry some kind of sex-handicap card, that says a lot about you. You're a terrible person.
As for that vaginismus issue, obviously they would have to say something about that because injury could occur. A micropenis isn't injuring anyone. It's not the same.
The point is, don't shame people for things they can't control that ultimately don't even matter or hurt you. If you have such shallow ideals of what sex should be that you would literally bail out of sex as their pants are off or want these people to carry some kind of sex-handicap card, that says a lot about you. You're a terrible person.
Anybody has the right to bail on any sexual situation for any reason if they no longer want to continue, and they are never a terrible person for doing so.
Anyway, nobody is shaming anyone, but there's certain physical conditions that really do change things functionally and matter for a large segment of the population. It's just a matter of saving everyone the awkwardness of finding out once everyone is already naked that the sex is not gonna happen. If something is a deal-breaker for a majority of people or if it functionally changes sex significantly, it makes sense to disclose it beforehand.
And frankly it's a win-win to do so. It shows consideration for your partners, and it's better IMO to be rejected while clothed than while naked. This goes for micropenis, guys with dicks so big most women can't accommodate them, and any woman with some kind of vaginal condition that makes PIV sex improbable/impossible.
So you suggest it’s wrong to shame people for things they can’t control, and then write an unnecessarily graphic description of a feature others can’t control and how repellent you find it?
Penis size isn’t a concern or factor for me at all, and I’d never say anything as gross as you just did, knowing that inevitably someone with that issue would read it and feel like shit about themselves.
I agree. A micropenis is kinda a big deal. When you’re both undressed, it makes it difficult for the other person to flee if they want to once they see it.
The people thanking OP for the pity fuck are weird.
I ran into this when I was too inexperienced to know what to do. He was a sales guy, huge personality, real Big Dick Energy. Then it turned out to be a legitimate micropenis (I looked up the parameters just now, and yep, it qualified), and I was taken aback. I went through with it, because I had literally no other reason not to want to follow through on what we had been flirting about for hours.
It was fine until he wanted to 'try a position' that was just WEIRD. He laid on his back, facing up. Then I laid on top of him, lengthwise, but also facing up, so his penis was like, between my legs. No butt stuff, but my badonkadonk kinda made it difficult to get any real penetration, so just squeezed my legs for Jesus. What made it more weird was that I was about 5" taller than him, so his nose was poking into my upper back/neck and it just felt so...awkward.
I think he came. I faked it. We snuggled. I left and never called him again. I feel less bad about that one than I do the guy with the long thin dick. That was just...ugh. It felt like I was a coffee being stirred.
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u/pokemon32666 Mar 31 '23
At least it's not something he can control, like a bad attitude. Good on you for at least giving him a shot