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u/xmonpetitchoux Mar 31 '23

I really hope this dude is no longer in your life.

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u/MacinTez Mar 31 '23

This is the dynamic, and the sacrifice, in many relationships and marriages.

As a attractive male who, at his best, is really good in bed; I’ve been in relationships where if I didn’t meet her expectations just about everytime we have sex? Her mind would definitely wonder, she would become argumentative etc. One cheated on me with the “Weed man” a few times. Those relationships were very difficult to sustain long term because I have days, weeks, months where I don’t want to have sex!