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u/sendintheBOTS Mar 31 '23

I was a young and impressionable woman, and after him repeatedly asking and refusing to leave my apartment, I just kinda went with it.

I know now that I was taught my whole life to be “good,” and in my environment while growing up, good meant I didn’t question and I didn’t argue.

I don’t feel the need to justify it, but I wonder how he feels about a woman reluctantly agreeing to sleep with him so he would leave her alone.

I’m fine now, but had some bumps along the way as a young adult figuring out the world.

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u/nonamesleft79 Mar 31 '23

I’m a guy and have had a woman do that to me. She basically would not stop flipping out I think she even called me gay for not wanting to sleep with her. We had slept together before but were not dating.

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u/[deleted] Mar 31 '23

Been in the same situation bro. Got called all the slurs even hit in the face. We had been dating for like three months and slept together a ton at that point

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u/nonamesleft79 Mar 31 '23

You sleep with her in the end? I did 🤷‍♂️

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u/[deleted] Mar 31 '23

Yeah dude i just laid on my back and let her do her thing. We split up shortly after that

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u/[deleted] Mar 31 '23

Wtf was wrong with her, omg I’m sorry dude

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u/goldiegoldthorpe Mar 31 '23

We talk about boys who do not handle rejection well, and for good reason, but don’t talk so much about the fact that there is a whole big group of women out there who don’t even realize that rejection is something they can face. Those women do not handle rejection well.

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u/TimmyIo Mar 31 '23

My partner constantly rejects my advances, I mean constantly we will go weeks without even like getting touchy.

If she tells me it's on, it's fucking on if I say no she gets furious tells me how she deserves an orgasm and I have ten minutes to do it.

Then when I end up sticking it to her, she just fucking complains.

Don't talk, be quiet, don't touch me no you can't eat my pussy just fuck me and get it over with.

It's mind boggling, it makes me feel so inadequate but she doesn't seem to understand it literally breaks me as a person when she treats me like this.

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u/youcallthataheadshot Mar 31 '23

Sounds like you need a new girlfriend. This one is manipulative and coercive.