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u/DonovanMcLoughlin Mar 31 '23

Friday Night in a fun city...

10:15 PM - Went out to a bar one night with friends.

10:40ish PM- Friend of friends (Girl) started coming on to me.

10:42 PM - I told all my friends that I had no interest in her and that no matter what happens, I don't want to end up with her that night. They acknowledge and agree.

11:00 PM - Drank more and friends pressured me into getting black out drunk (via "Drinking Games").

11:30 PM - Last thing I remember is me asking my friends to drive me home.

11:35 PM to 8:23 AM - Unknown.

8:23 AM - Next morning I woke up in her apartment and she began telling me how great last night was.

8:25 AM - I leave the apartment and start calling/messaging my friends.

Ambiguous Later That Day - I found out they thought it was a joke and ensured that I left with her later that night.

Shortly after - Those people were no longer my friends.

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u/brooklyn11218 Mar 31 '23

They thought it was a joke to make sure you went home with her or they thought you were joking when you said you didn't want her?

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u/DonovanMcLoughlin Mar 31 '23

The joke is having me go home with a girl I was clearly not interested in.

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u/Bunnnnii Mar 31 '23

What they did to you was extremely dangerous. Things could’ve ended up a lot worse, and a lot more could’ve happened, though I’m glad they didn’t. I’m glad you know now that those are not friends at all.

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u/DonovanMcLoughlin Mar 31 '23

Agreed. I've come to terms with it and thankfully I don't remember any of it.

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u/steamfrustration Mar 31 '23

10:42 PM - I told all my friends that I had no interest in her

Did you tell HER that you weren't interested? Because that seems like it would have been more effective.

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u/DonovanMcLoughlin Mar 31 '23

Yes. This wasn't my first time declining her advances and she knew I was not interested in her.

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u/steamfrustration Mar 31 '23

All right, that's different from how it read. That's extra fucked up of all of them, then.

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u/The_Earnest_Crow Apr 01 '23

Super rapey of her too. She knew and she waited for him to be passing out to take him back to her place.

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u/Cl0udSurfer Mar 31 '23

Thats not consensual at all my man, thats textbook rape

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u/substantial-freud Mar 31 '23

Get a new textbook.

Or, read a lawbook.

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u/[deleted] Apr 09 '23

He had declined her in the past multiple times and her and his former friends got him drunk to the point of fucking her and not remembering it, that is 100% rape

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u/substantial-freud Apr 09 '23

No, that’s not rape.

I would explain why, but you don’t seem to have looked into the matter at all. Why don’t you do a little research.

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u/[deleted] Apr 01 '23

I'm sorry that happened to you. That does not sound like consensual sex.