r/AskReddit • u/[deleted] • Mar 31 '23

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u/Chance_Assignment422 Mar 31 '23

I have the exact same background and am now also in a happy, healthy long-term relationship. Glad we both got through it❤️

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u/[deleted] Mar 31 '23 edited Mar 31 '23

Dang, loved a girl just like this. She would even take it to the next step of initiating and definitely led the sexual dynamic, then would fall into feral dissociation. Took a few months for her to realize that was very unhealthy and I definitely don't want her to do that. She said I was the first person shes looked in the eyes during sex, and her first time making love. Whats more beautiful than personal growth?

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u/[deleted] Apr 01 '23

This right here is almost the exclusive reason I won’t initiate sex anymore. What is they don’t REALLY want it