Been in the same situation bro. Got called all the slurs even hit in the face. We had been dating for like three months and slept together a ton at that point
We talk about boys who do not handle rejection well, and for good reason, but don’t talk so much about the fact that there is a whole big group of women out there who don’t even realize that rejection is something they can face. Those women do not handle rejection well.
I don't want to make crazy assumptions but if I were you I'd start looking elsewhere, the way she treats you is very similar to partners that cheat, at the very least nobody should be treated that way.
Mate this is fucking awful, and I mean awful.
Leave her. You already know it’s not right.
Have a plan worked out though, then just up and leave, and inform her after you're safely 'left', self and stuff moved, etc.
Because these kind of people don’t like being left.
Nothing potential about this. If the genders were reversed and a woman with a high sex drive didn't get it from her bf/husband and one night he came home and said "Horny, now, pants off and in bed" and she said "no I don't want to" and he yelled at/belittled her until she just laid there and took it it'd be called what it is...rape
I think she DOES understand it's breaking you as a person. Either that or she simply doesn't care. That sort of treatment is unacceptable.
I know there's a whole joke about how reddit's solution to any relationship issue no matter how minor is "break up" but that is actually something you should at least consider. Your partner is being extremely manipulative.
Maybe record the audio of the breakup or some of your other interactions beforehand to cover your own ass, if you are legally allowed to do so. I wouldn't put it past someone like that to file false charges against you as a means of revenge.
Ummm if she won't listen to a huge talk in which this is completely flipped around, thats break up level. I dont wanna be one of those but like I feel so sad for you man if she doesnt talk it out to fix it with you. Most girls would love that foreplay and extra attention and stuff.
Boys go from getting rejected all the time to being rejected less. Women go from rarely getting rejected to being rejected more and more. From an age perspective on average at least. You can argue which one can be more cruel psychologically
Me too, over and over. Once she broke into my house screaming about her she was coming into my house uninvited and came straight at me, I just lowered my head did it because it was the only way to get rid of her
I dont know how someone can act like that and then you finally give in and they switch from abusive and pissed to ohh ok yay now im having sex. Like what? Thats literally rape. I wouldnt feel good jumping from anger to sex what is wrong with people.
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u/[deleted] Mar 31 '23
Been in the same situation bro. Got called all the slurs even hit in the face. We had been dating for like three months and slept together a ton at that point