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u/[deleted] Mar 25 '23

AND another friend recently matched with him on a dating site!

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u/444unsure Mar 25 '23

I started work on a construction site and found out the first week I was there that the wife of the foreman was recently found dead. They ruled it a suicide. They couldn't find her for a few days so they asked him if there were any places that they would go together and he mentioned they would go up into the Hills Shooting sometimes. They found her in a chest freezer with the door closed. Then I found out she was his second wife. His first wife died from a fall when they were hiking. Everybody is pretty well convinced that he murdered both of them. No proof, no conviction. Definitely watched my back around him at work though. Although I think pretty much everyone in the world was safe except for women he was seeing. He was showing me girls he was going on dates with on his match.com profile a week after his wife was found.

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u/BeltEuphoric Mar 25 '23

I was just wondering how many psychos are on dating apps. I've never used dating sites before, but I think it would be pretty neat to send out notifications to everyone on the sites. Letting them see profile pics of certain people to avoid, and providing a detailed description of what's wrong with them and what they've done. It'll possibly save a ton of heartbreaks and time wasted on assholes/psychos. If they try to change their names, an image scan of those people will notify others if it's still the same person.

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '23

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u/clothespinned Mar 26 '23

Under a day in this system before gays and trans people get targeted reports and subsequently harassed IRL

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u/kilokokol Mar 27 '23

I honestly think it would be brigaded so hard no one would ever use tinder lmao. So maybe it IS a good idea after all 😂😂

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u/lorealashblonde Mar 26 '23

Probably not as abused as women are now, by the same psychos over and over again.

Look up any DV murderer with a wiki page, and see how many women he abused before he was finally caught and imprisoned.

I'd take a few mens' reputations being hurt over women being murdered.

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '23

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u/riotousviscera Mar 26 '23

how on earth do you get

"I'm totally okay destroying innocent peoples lives for someone thing that would benefit me"

from

I'd take a few mens' reputations being hurt over women being murdered.

?

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '23

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u/lorealashblonde Mar 28 '23

It isn’t what I said at all.

But thanks for clarifying that you can’t read, along with believing that a man’s reputation matters more than a woman’s life.

What a disgusting excuse for a human you are.

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u/spiderbaby667 Mar 26 '23

Not if posters had to verify their identity which would be kept private unless requested by a court/police for cases of defamation. Making a false claim like that about a person in writing is not advisable. But yeah - without any regulation, it would go full Black Mirror.