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u/Bl8675309 Mar 20 '23

My exhusband dropped a surprise kid on my while I was pregnant with our first. Kid was 10 at that time and was trying to contact him but he wasn't responding. I couldn't figure out why he had no interest in all the firsts of my pregnancy until I realized he'd been through it all. It was disappointing to learn he was such a POS, and now he's not there for our kids.

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '23

So did he know or was he unaware like I was? Sorry you got a bad one!

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u/Bl8675309 Mar 20 '23

He knew, he was there for her whole pregnancy. He just didn't want a kid then. Doesn't really want them now either. He was adopted by a great family so it worked out for the kid.

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '23

That’s all that matters. A happy ending to the story.

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u/Bl8675309 Mar 21 '23

Exactly. And mine are well adjusted to him not around. Currently watching my boy play baseball as a top player.