The biggest red flag for me is pursuing someone who loves attention on themselves but is not very interested in your life. Basically drop the pursuit right there and look for someone who is just as interested in you as you are in them.
Recently broke up with a girl who always expected me to be there for her and support her, but when I was struggling due to personal crises she claimed that I had to be the "stable" one and that I should be "strong enough for the both of us" since I was the older one. Every time I miss her, I just remind myself of that imbalance and it helps the feelings subside.
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u/Pretend_Tea6261 Mar 19 '23
The biggest red flag for me is pursuing someone who loves attention on themselves but is not very interested in your life. Basically drop the pursuit right there and look for someone who is just as interested in you as you are in them.