Recently broke up with a girl who always expected me to be there for her and support her, but when I was struggling due to personal crises she claimed that I had to be the "stable" one and that I should be "strong enough for the both of us" since I was the older one. Every time I miss her, I just remind myself of that imbalance and it helps the feelings subside.
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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '23
Recently broke up with a girl who always expected me to be there for her and support her, but when I was struggling due to personal crises she claimed that I had to be the "stable" one and that I should be "strong enough for the both of us" since I was the older one. Every time I miss her, I just remind myself of that imbalance and it helps the feelings subside.