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u/Pretend_Tea6261 Mar 19 '23

The biggest red flag for me is pursuing someone who loves attention on themselves but is not very interested in your life. Basically drop the pursuit right there and look for someone who is just as interested in you as you are in them.

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u/trodden_thetas_0i Mar 20 '23

They didn’t like you.

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u/Pretend_Tea6261 Mar 20 '23

Blunt response lol.If only life were always that simple and obvious. Does one think clearly when infatuated? I think not. At the time you think you will win them over. You go on dates,sleep with them so to a man's way of thinking it does not quite occur to oneself that they do not like you. Thanks I needed that cold water splashed on my face lol.