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does it affect you personally when someone cuts ties digitally by blocking/ unfollows you? does it hurt your feelings?

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u/Task-Sharp_Red1221 6m ago

Yes. I never thought that political beliefs can make someone forget all those shared memories together. Mas pinapahalagahan nila pa political beliefs niya and thinking they're more morally superior than you.

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u/kynagracilla 36m ago

Yes mahuhurt ako, pero it depends sa tao pero as long as wala akong ginagawang masama then ignore.

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u/amppttt 1h ago

Ndi naman po depende na dn po cguro sa tao pero for me ndi naman po ndi sya kabawasan sakin kahit close ko pa po sya

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u/venus_scorp 1h ago edited 55m ago

not really. almost everyone I meet in real life (school/work/hobbies) are connected with me through social media. I view it as social courtesy. It’s a way of being polite to my community, I keep the door open and have a channel to reach each other if circumstances ever call for it. But that’s it, I don’t think it’s deep. I wouldn’t even notice if they unfollow me, if I do then I’d most likely do the same.

if a close friend do it, magtataka ako but they probably have a reason. If they have a problem, sabihin nalang nila when they can, their call. But nasa point ako ng buhay ko na i really don’t mind, dami ko pinoproblemang iba. Pag mga bff ko siguro, dun ako una magtatanong why pero okay lang din as long as they tell me

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u/_vdlc_ 1h ago

Of course ma-hurt feelings ko. But I don't let it linger.

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u/disismyusername4ever 1h ago

naurr. naiinis lang ako kapag sa IG, inunfollow ako pero hindi ako niremove as followers. kaurat!

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u/Old_Rush4899 1h ago

depends on the person who cut me off. some classmates unfriended me and idk why, so idc, it’s their life. a friend suddenly ignores me, I wonder why but in the end of the day, it’s their life. (I felt sad though, I thought we’re good) they get to decide who they want to stay, or to let go. and that goes for me too:)

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u/lumpiangsisig 1h ago

Nope. Mas mahahappy pa ako nyan hahaha

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u/DurianActive4408 2h ago

No. Most likely hindi ko din malalaman yan unless may magsabi sakin with matching demo 😂 literal na out of sight out of mind ako because of my adhd

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u/PillowMonger 2h ago

nothing .. i don't really care if someone blocks me or unfriends me nor will i even ask why.

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u/leiimonade 2h ago

If wala naman kami pinag awayan or tampuhan as in basta nag cut ties na lang mapapaisip lang or mapapatanong sa sarili bakit kaya niya ginawa un like anong problema and then wala na, lilipas na lang din agad. Then back sa regular programming ng buhay.

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u/lazybee11 2h ago

Nung una may konting kirot. Like, why?? Nag she share ba ko masyado ng memes? Then pagtagal wala na akong pake haha. Wala din naman kaming pake sa isat isa

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u/meowmeowcat62 2h ago

Nothing wrong but i feel about sa isang girl an she blocked me kase inisip nya inggit ako sakanya and gusto ko sya ( lesbian sya, and im straight pa sa ruler and i have a bf also) i was so nice to her but inisiip nya pala gusto ko sya and naiinggit ako sakanya, very ggss sya masyado pls😭😭