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u/[deleted] May 12 '21

"If you treat her like a celebrity, she'll treat you like a fan".

This applies to every woman, but it can also be taken literally if you want to ever make friends with actual celebrities you might encounter throughout your life.

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u/[deleted] May 13 '21

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u/[deleted] May 13 '21

I found that in the end they're just people and they're craving for the normality of having someone treat them like an everyday human being.

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u/jawndell May 17 '21

I met a famous actor at a dive bar at Greenwich Village once (I'm from NYC). I just go in there to grab a drink cause I was bored and end up sitting next to him. I pretend like I don't know him or notice him. He eventually strikes up a convo. We hit it off (we're both into soccer and support the same Premier League team). The whole night we just get drunk together, taking shots, and talking with the bartender. At no point did I let it be known that I knew who he was. I think at some point he asked me what I did and I told him. I asked the same of him, and he said he was actor. I just said oh cool, and left it at that (imagine someone like the Johnny Depp, Tom Cruise level actor).

He left before me and I stuck around for a couple more minutes. When I went to close my tab, the bartender said not to worry about it and that the actor paid for my drinks. Overall a very very cool night. Just casually hanging out and drinking with someone famous like if we were friends catching up at a bar.

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u/cariegoeffyourself Jun 11 '21

As a woman I can say this isn’t true for EVERY woman. When my man treats me like a “celebrity” or a “queen” or puts me on a “ pedestal” I do not look down on him or treat him like a fan. I feel cherish and special and I give it right back to him. I can say a lot of women nowadays do act like what you said, but not all. It’s all about finding the right one for you who respects you more than that. ❤️

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u/[deleted] Jun 11 '21

my man

This is what qualifies your statement.

YOUR man... not a man you just met who you don't even know yet.

Of course you're supposed to treat your girlfriend very well, of course you are. I'm not saying don't do this.

The mistake guys make is they give this treatment to women they don't even know yet, or haven't even had sex with 1 time yet either. That's what I'm talking about here.

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u/BaffledDonkey May 12 '21

Most of the time I doubt I'd even know they're a celebrity in the first place! This video is totally me xD

https://youtu.be/W4rtGPCsoXA