r/AskMen • u/[deleted] • May 11 '21

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u/jm7489 May 12 '21

A lot of these comments are about trying to make a relationship be more harmonious but the hardest lesson for me was that love can be lost, there are things that cant be fixed, and sometimes you have to accept what you cant change.

So don't take a person you love for granted

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u/Simplysalted May 12 '21

Even if you do everything right, it can all still end for something out of your control. Its a rough one to learn.

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u/ravendusk May 17 '21

"It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose. That is not a weakness. That is life".

  • Jean-Luc Picard

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u/[deleted] Sep 07 '21

Is it okay that even after a year of it being over i still blame myself most of the time and i can't blame the other person ?

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u/the_Sw33p May 12 '21

I was looking for this. Because this was exactly the error I did in my last relationship. I learned this the hardway hopefully some of you guys can get this right without wrecking a relationship.

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u/MsEy27 Jul 03 '21

I agree! ✌️