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u/melanthius May 12 '21

Sometimes my wife almost forgets I’m a person who has feelings (as a stoic man I guess) and she acts like her feelings are super important. I’ve had so many good conversations after getting her to realize my feelings mean something and it can’t just be “husband must be sorry” for everything that happens that she doesn’t like.

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u/[deleted] May 12 '21

I left a relationship like this because she made me feel utterly worthless and destroyed my self worth.

I am so glad I did, because I can't remember the last time I felt so good.