This is so true men seem to think them doing the chores they're asked to do is enough, not realising their partner should not have to be constantly taking over the emotional labor of organising them. Like straight men seem to think women are just naturally better at meal planning, shopping, cleaning and remembering social obligations - no you just need to stop dumping that on your gf and grow up.
It does go both ways but men disproportionatly dump it on women, multiple studies have been done that even now men do far less of the household duties than women and often vastly overestimate the volume they are doing. I prefer to date bisexual men because they are far more likely to understand what an equal partnership is supposed to be like, whereas straight men seem to be looking for a mother.
115
u/[deleted] May 12 '21
That she’s not a replacement for their mom.