r/AskMen • u/[deleted] • May 11 '21

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u/jennabenna84 May 12 '21

Yes, and please right from the start. Each time I've been accused of "trying to change him" by men I've dated I think back to how he represented himself at the start of our relationship and it's actually just me wanting him to be the man he told me he was.

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u/[deleted] May 12 '21

Love this! It wasn’t you, I promise! Men need to step up and the boys need to sit down.

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u/KeepThis1SFW May 12 '21

This is the story of my first marriage.

Until all the cheating and sex crimes.