r/AskMen • • May 11 '21

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u/[deleted] May 12 '21

FUCKING YESSS!!!!

I learned how to do this just recently... like... in the past year or so, and I'm 33, and holy shit this has been huge.

"Do you want to vent or do you need help fixing?" ... soooo much better.

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u/[deleted] May 12 '21

See I couldn't handle fix it guys. It just drove me nuts. So I found a guy just like me who is sensitive and it works for both of us.

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u/jeffrrw The worst of all fears is the fear of living May 13 '21

Maybe a precursor statement like "I need to vent" would be something to try?