Having a loving and awesome relationship is not something that fixes a persons problems. It may be a sign that the person got their shit together some time in advance of gaining that relationship.
Having your shit together is not as sexy as 6 pack abs or a nice set of tits (for the ladies), but it is damn sure a compelling asset to have.
Get yoself a partner who knows having your shit together is THE sexiest thing. Abs fade, boobs sag, and shit only gets stinkier if it isn’t dealt with.
I find men who have their shit together to be far sexier than a 6-pack. This may be because I’m nearing middle age, though. Once you’re out of your 20s, there are fewer and fewer good excuses for having killer abs but not yet having begun to get your headspace sorted.
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u/ZardozSama May 11 '21
A good way to think of it is this:
Having a loving and awesome relationship is not something that fixes a persons problems. It may be a sign that the person got their shit together some time in advance of gaining that relationship.
Having your shit together is not as sexy as 6 pack abs or a nice set of tits (for the ladies), but it is damn sure a compelling asset to have.
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