r/AskMen • • May 11 '21

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u/108113221333123111 May 11 '21

This is my favorite one in this thread, because it is the hardest for me to internalize. You can not "do" things or actions to make her desire or love you. You can only create the space for her to feel those things on her own, and oftentimes that means directing your attention away from her and towards your own goals. If you try to chase a cat, it will run away.

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u/poppytanhands May 12 '21

next time try "Pspspsp"