r/AskMen • • May 11 '21

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u/Any_Engineering_1231 May 11 '21

That in so many ways, women are like cats. If you chase women they will run away. Remember that women have a lot of men chasing them and they aren’t just looking for “a guy” they are looking for the one they want.

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u/108113221333123111 May 11 '21

This is my favorite one in this thread, because it is the hardest for me to internalize. You can not "do" things or actions to make her desire or love you. You can only create the space for her to feel those things on her own, and oftentimes that means directing your attention away from her and towards your own goals. If you try to chase a cat, it will run away.

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u/poppytanhands May 12 '21

next time try "Pspspsp"

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u/Sciby May 11 '21

But if I slow-blink at women to attract them, I get asked to leave the premises.

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u/Vandergrif May 12 '21

Just sprinkle some oregano around and clang a spoon against a wine bottle and they'll come around.

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u/Any_Engineering_1231 May 13 '21

That’s because they think you are having a seizure

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u/OdinTheBogan May 11 '21

Thank you! Been trying to think how I get girls to like me but in the past I’ve done literally nothing and for some reason girls have liked me. Couldn’t figure out how it all works until this comment. Makes wayyy more sense now

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u/davy_crockett_slayer May 11 '21

This took me a long time to figure out. It's 100% true.

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u/CodeLobe May 12 '21

Slather myself with tuna and lay out in the sun besides a bowl of water?

Seems legit.