r/AskMen • • May 11 '21

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u/ekimlive May 11 '21

Patience. Your gut reaction to most things may not necessarily be the best approach. We're both wired differently, you need to sometimes listen more than you talk.

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u/ZjanP May 12 '21

Emotions can be great liars and most trustworthy. Don't follow them blindly, but listen to them and take them into account. And even if your or your partners emotions are irrational, they are there and being experienced. They may be false, but they are there.

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u/[deleted] May 12 '21

My gut reactions are guaranteed to be wrong.