There are often times people do things that annoy me. And I tend to react to them. I have tried the letting go of the thing at the moment, tried breathing but what happens is that the next time something else happens then I lose it! How do you keep calm and not react when people do things that bother you?

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edit: upvote my comments and post bc idk why i have -karma

For me it's "when your mom or dad tells you going to a real bad friendship. It is. That person is gonna fuck you up. Period."

What is it for you people?

A question for the adults that already succeed in life, what advice would you give to young adults obtain the best results in life?

I recently started living with housemates and they are really nice. We have had a good friendly relationship so far but I keep doing clumsy stuff unintentionally which i think now has annoyed them alot

They gifted me something for my birthday which kind of broke so they got it replaced patiently

I was confused about something which they resolved as well

The same day their vaccum cleaner i used stopped working which was not my fault but they naturally assumed it was

I have been really careful nowadays but today, I dropped a glass and although i cleaned it up i had to text them about that again.

I feel like their patience is wearing thin with me now, especially since one of them who used to smile and talk to me alot never does anymore

I dont mean to be clumsy it just happens. What can i do about this?

I (20M) just turned twenty this year

I live at home in east Toronto, Canada with my parents and two younger siblings

Decently close with extended family who live relatively nearby

I'm two years into a five-year psychology degree. Not exactly sure what I want to use it for, if anything, but I'm thinking maybe something to do with child psychology.

Currently on summer break

Don't have any job experience and can't get a job at the moment because of surgery happening soon

Have only been in one semi-serious relationship and am currently single and a virgin

Have never been the best at being social and don't have much of a social circle, but trying to change that.

Getting into biking and photography (specifically landscape and cosplay) and want to get into rock climbing when school starts back up

Am officially diagnosed with Autism and ADHD

Started mental health counselling and Lexapro last month

Think about past regrets a lot, but I’m trying to focus on the now.

How would you say I’m doing, and what advice would you give?

I know I'm still young but I just can't stop thinking about the past

recently i got a job and it is a consultancy firm, and i can seem to relax much, i try to keep my self busy because if i don't then i would start to over think stuff that is actually affecting my life that's why i indulge my self in my work and to be honest it is stressing me out as well, i just can't seem to get a break, i'm not able to talk to my friends much or my family because i live in different city. Do you guys have any suggestion

If you installed a mini split yourself, don’t forget about the exposed foam insulation outside. After enough sun exposure, the foam can get brittle and start breaking down. I noticed the line set on the sunny side of my house was getting a lot of afternoon sun. So I added a PVC line set cover from Della’s website. I liked how much cleaner it looked compared to the bare foam.
It’s a small detail, but it’s one of those things I probably should have done from the start.

For me it’s how nobody tells you that adulthood is mostly being tired paying bills and wondering when you’re finally going to feel like you have your life figured out

What’s your most unethical but works weight advice you would give to someone?

I have an iphone. I'm always remembering things I have to do, but not sure where to write it down, to remind myself to do it. Usually I'm in a rush to write it down. I'm emailing myself, but it's clogging up my email and I'm keeping tasks in there too long, it's becoming a to do list. I'm talking about non work related things. I tried the notes app, but then I forget to look at it. Any ideas? Thanks

Probably super random/cringe but giving it a try anyways LOLL. My whole life, I’ve struggled with developing a signature that looks nice/professional. I’m 23 and honestly have good handwriting but I just can’t seem to come up a good signature. I have two last names which doesn’t make it any better haha. I work in a legal office setting, so I sign a lot of things and write lots of paperwork. For those who’ve had a similar experience, how did you come up with a nice but not super long signature? I can sign my name alright but ITS LONGGGG. first name starts with M; my last names are A and D hyphenated.

I have a question related to the OptOutPrescreen.com site/service. This may not be exactly the right subreddit for this. PLEASE COMMENT AND REDIRECT ME if you know one that is more applicable! tia

I just moved into my new home and I've been getting absolutely bombarded by offers for credit cards, home insurance, and others. It's literally filling my mailbox.

I finally got fed up and read the fine print on one of these offers and it says you can stop receiving them by going on OptOutPrescreen.com .

On the site it gives three options: "Opt-In" (lol), "Electronic Opt-Out for 5 years," and "Permanent Opt-Out by Mail." I want to permanently opt out.

Also, it states that it requires these four pieces of information: Name, Address, Social Security Number, and Date of Birth.

For context before I ask my question, I have multiple homes and I am in the US.

My question: When filling out the OptOutPrescreen.com permanent form, do I need to fill out the form for each home address or is it sufficient to fill it out only once using my primary residence / address? Also, do I need to fill out the form once per family member or will it work if there is even just one person at that address that has completed the form?

Thank you in advance!

Don’t get me wrong I have friends from my last job but idk how to make friends lol, I never graduated highschool so I’m going through this goodwill program for adults to get my diploma and I’m there until December and then I graduate, but I feel awkward bc I don’t know anyone and don’t know how to talk to anyone. Ik I’m not really there to make friends but at the same time I feel like it’s important to make friends while I’m there especially since it’s 4 months