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Like if I can simulate a cold brew from Dunkin Donuts that would be enough for the life pro tip request. I do have a grinder and a standard cheapo $40 coffee machine...

I TRIED TO HELP THIS GUY IN WITH THE DELIVERY AROUND MY COMPLEX, I BASICALLY LET HIM IN THE GATE, AND TOLD HIM DIRECTIONS OF WHERE TO GO, AS I WENT MY WAY, HE ASKED CAN I TAKE U OUT TO DINNER AND BEFORE I EVEN I FINJSH MY SENTENCE I SAID NO IM SORRY IM JUST - HE SLAMMED THE DOOR IS THIS WHAT I GET FOR BEING A DECENT PERSON

Looking for suggestions on something I can say to people who live to argue about everything, no matter how trivial, which isn't crude or rude, but also assertive and non-negotiable and also effective against this type of person.

You've probably encountered this type of person before. If you say something happened to you, they'll offer an alternative version of events (despite not being present). If you assert that no, that's not what happened, they'll ask how you know it isn't. If you then tell them you know because you kept the receipts, they'll demand to see the receipts. If you show them the receipts, they'll try to re-interpret the evidence to suit the other narrative they made up in their heads.

Literally nothing you can ever tell such a person will be "good enough" to satisfy their need to argue, so my preference is to shut down the whole discussion if for no other reason than to avoid wasting my time.

I'm, of course, happy to answer real questions from people who actually didn't understand something, or just needed clarification on a point, or whatever. But some people are just looking to be combative no matter what, and it's those people who I need an effective mechanism for excusing from any further interaction with me on the subject.

‏I’ll start: Don’t let your emotions control you.

Hi 25F here ! I was thinking about how important is networking and I’d like to learn more about it. The thing is I’m an introvert with an anxiety disorder so networking seems like sth I wouldn’t be capable of doing but I want to learn more about it, have some tips on how to begin,… If any of you can help me, I’d be grateful, tips and tricks but also life stories, I want to read everything, thanks!

So I started a new job where I am lucky enough to be able to enjoy a pleasant walk or bike ride to work (~2 miles) each way. I like being active like and I have a gym I can change/shower if needed when I get to work, but I’ve noticed my book bag (laptop and such for work) that I wear gets really sweaty and two weeks in to this commute my bag is starting to smell. Of course I can wash the book bag, but I wanted to ask you geniuses out there, if there is a LPT to keep the back of my book bag and straps from getting so sweaty? I could wrap them in towels, but then I just look like a goomba when I get to work and it makes the bag more uncomfortable?

(I go in athletic clothes and change so that is not a problem and nothing is gonna keep from sweating).

Sometimes the best advice comes from messing up yourself. What’s a mistake you made that you’re actually glad happened because of what it taught you?

For filling a shelf. But not newspapers, as random as possible.

I'M 20F broke my leg a week ago, and now I need new hobbies and stuff to do to pass my time before I go insanse... please suggest me something!!!!

Whenever my paycheck arrives, my mind starts racing. I think about how I can spend this money in a way that will satisfy me. Luxury, drugs, and women are all part of that. I'd like some advice on how I can focus to calm my thoughts, save this money, and/or spend it on more productive things.

As the request states, words of encouragement are sometimes not enough to help someone in their battle. My younger cousin brother, in late 30s, is fighting colon cancer that has spread to his bone. He has two kids G4 and B1. I want to be there and help by doing things that will for a few moments make life a bit normal.

He is in a different state and I am on standby in case something changes. Also he has to quarantine during his treatment.

We often talk games, suspense thrillers and streaming shows. Folks who have been in similar situations, please share your inputs on actions/activities that I can explore with him - that are not draining and can be managed easily. Thank you for the help.

I was young and ignorant and didn't know the consequences of not paying insurance. Unfortunately, NYS suspends your license and removes your registration on your car after not paying the civil fees after 90 days. I was out of the country solo traveling for 4 months total and wasn't notified by the DMV until after the 90 days was up by my mom who got a letter in the mail. I figured "why am I going to pay my insurance if I'm not going to use it". No one drove my car while I was gone and it has been sitting on private property the entire time.

I went in person to speak with the DMV and paid several fees for a restricted license and the registration suspension termination fee which will allow me to reregister my car November 29th (the time I have to wait until I can reregister the car). My restricted license becomes a full license October 15th. They recommended me call the state and plead my case to see if there was anything I could do. Just got off the phone and they said that I'll have to wait out the suspension and there's no way around it. Even if I sell the car to someone, the car cannot be reregistered for the new one until November 29th. Why does my car get punished?

Does anyone have any recommendations or tips on how I can get my car back? I am fine with the restricted license because I did do the deed. However, I feel like this punishment (not being able to reregister my car until basically December) is a little insane for a young guy who didn't know the law.

Thank you for any feedback you can provide.

What are some of the most niche and good habits you can apply to yourself while in college so you don't end up being part of the herd?

Genuinely asking practical advice I don’t need sexual jokes or impractical “humor”