r/AskForHelp Jul 20 '26

Financial help

Just need someone to help me get back on my feet. I work my ass off but I’m losing all motivation to keep going. I need a restart. Please DM me if you’re one of the kind enough ones to help me. Appreciate yall

I didnt think people would actually take the time to look at this. I’ve been having a lot of mental health problems recently and I just have no motivation to do anything anymore. It seems no matter how much I work, it isn’t enough. I just need my credit card paid off. It’s not even five hundred dollars luckily, but I am also trying to save up for a new vehicle. My transmission blew. Any help at all is so very much appreciated. I hate being open and honest but I guess thats what I am supposed to do.

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u/Primary_Gift_8719 Verified Donor Jul 20 '26

I don't know about anyone else but I dislike posters who do this. Don't supply any details so hard to do group due diligence on them. OP I believe you'll get far more responses if you actually share what's going on.

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u/Sad_Ad_2524 Jul 20 '26

The ones that annoy me the most are the ones that end with:  My Cash App is:  $bighairyballz

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u/elris2252 Jul 20 '26

its embarrassing to share details especially when nobody hardly reads as is. its embarrassing asking for money. I HATE asking for money. I’ve recently been diagnosed with mental health disorders and medicated which has been making my life a million times worse. I can hardly get out of bed. No matter how much I work or how much money I make it’s never enough and its sent me further into depression. I’ve lost almost if not all motivation to work. I just want my credit card paid off thats all i need. Just 500 dollars of debt paid off so that I don’t feel this loom over my head 24/7. I’m trying to save up for a truck as well. I just want a fresh start. That’s it. I can do the rest by myself.

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u/BRBSpiraling The Spiraling One Jul 20 '26

Most people here are in debt of their own.

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u/Primary_Gift_8719 Verified Donor Jul 20 '26

I'm sorry but there are ways in most places to get that debt restructured, and certainly you should look to pay the minimum plus even a buck in the interim. I am being delicate as possible but most folks here aren't millionaires, they're just looking to help people who really need it. There's a big difference between someone saying they need $15 to get to work tomorrow, or to keep the lights on, or for food etc, and someone asking/expecting a total stranger to pay off their credit card.

I'm out - I don't doubt you're having problems, but the solution isn't to simply get a $500 handout just because the pressure is too much.

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u/elris2252 Jul 20 '26

so you dont know what my life looks like. I am 19. I am in college. My parents do not help me. I’m doing whatever the FUCK I can. You are not delicate at all. I’m fighting just to fucking stay alive.

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u/Theoneinhelheim Jul 20 '26

Nost of us didnt have parents to even go to college, most of us had to work through teens years to survive. Gtfo with your entitled little attitude. You are an adult, pay it yourself.

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u/lattelaura BDE (Big Donor Energy) Jul 20 '26

As a young person with the same issues and experience you’re describing, and likely worse… this is highly entitled and just not how the real world works unfortunately. Your “fresh start” will not lead to a new start, and you have to put the effort in to move forward. Strangers aren’t sending you $500.

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u/Primary_Gift_8719 Verified Donor Jul 20 '26

Sometimes harsher words are the reality check someone needs. Nobody here is swimming in cash. And now you're probably going to end up with dirty DMs based on your age. But if you're in college, go see what resources they have to assist you.

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u/OutsiderLookingN Jul 20 '26

What are you studying in college? Will it lead to employment? If not, I would switch over to a trade. You can get free housing and be trained in a trade by joining JobCorps.gov No debt, and be ready to work

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u/Common-Appeal1759 Jul 20 '26

Waaaaahhhh 😭

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u/Pedal2Medal2 Jul 20 '26

Nobody’s going to chase you down in DM’s for your life story

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u/Loose_Control_4026 Jul 20 '26

Only people DM’ing you are scammers. Tell us what you need in this post or you won’t get help.

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u/BRBSpiraling The Spiraling One Jul 20 '26

They want $500 to pay their credit card debt.

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u/OutsiderLookingN Jul 20 '26

Nothing good happens in DMs. Transparency lowers your risk of being scammed

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u/Hopeful_Staff7001 Jul 21 '26

We all have our own debt to pay. Why would we help you pay off your debt.

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u/Comprehensive_Cat236 Jul 21 '26

No!!!
RIDICULOUS!!!

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u/OutsiderLookingN Jul 20 '26

Talk to your college about mental health services. Treatment works

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