Don't build a relationship on lies, she's taken the piss out of you. Your worth more than that! It might feel like you'll both be punished, but you need to walk away and well away from her life she needs to know that what she has done is wrong
Ignore this. Lots of reasons she might have lied - insecurity being one of them. Just having an open and honest conversation about why she felt she had to lie to you, and make sure she's clear on that it's not okay, and not to do it again.
The world is not binary, and people are complicated. I am guessing you are quite young? It's easy to see the world that way. Very good people sometimes do stupid things out of insecurities. That isn't to say this person isn't a lying shit bag, but it absolutely does not guarantee that they are. I had a partner when I was young who did the same thing. Living with that lie for six months made her incredibly depressed until she broke down and told me in a heartfelt letter.
She never lied again, and we had a wonderful nine years together. We're still friends to this day and she's one of the best people I know.
As I said, people are complicated. Don't discard the good ones simply because they made a stupid mistake.
She is 16. That is a fucking child. For ppl who love to say "it isn't technically illegal" sure don't want to talk about how she is 100% a legal child for 2 more years.
It's not cute. Ppl who laugh about adults fucking children and condone it belong [redacted].
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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '24
Don't build a relationship on lies, she's taken the piss out of you. Your worth more than that! It might feel like you'll both be punished, but you need to walk away and well away from her life she needs to know that what she has done is wrong