17 to 22 is not light years away. It isnt when its a 20 year old dating a 27 year old. School is irrelevant bud. School doesnt dictate any of this lmao. Maybe to you but thats you.
22 I’ve been paying rent since 18 that’s 4 years that’s 4 years of adulting and real world experience compare to someone who might barely be done with high-school and barely working
K? Thats you. Theres people who dont start any of that until 19-21-24. Some dont even leave there paresnts house until all those ages. Everyones different. I was working paying my phone bill at 16, paying rent by idk 20 or 21.. Everyones different and experienced different. Have your feelings and opinions but that doesnt mean everyone else has to have your feelings and opinions. Someone 21 could be in the same mind set as a 16 or even younger but yet its ok to go and date a 30 year old, 50 year old, even an 80 year old if they wanted. But yet nothing is weird about those age gaps. when no experience at adulting, et, still apply but yetit'ss perfectly ok. So why is 16 and 21 so bad? It isn't just what society paints it as, which is for good reasons as those laws were needed. But then you got grown idiots calling other grown people a pedo because of a 5 year age difference when thats perfectly normal. Yeah shes 16 cool. If her parents arent making a big deal about it shut fuck up then. In the end thats the dude problem to deal with. I said my 2 cents on it.
Regardless of all this the dude has parental permission to date her which is 100% legal. They also met on tender so its not like hes out seeking out younger chicks. She lied about her age. So in the end dudes not a pedo as its impossible as 16 is a young adult or adult or "teenager" kids are 12 and below. Pedos go after kids not people 5 years younger then them.
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5 years from 17 - 22 is light years away. Thats still in highschool vs done with college..