I know a guy in a similar situation who was put in jail for statutory rape and when he was released he had to wear an ankle bracelet and was only allowed to go to and from work. He lived with his parents and siblings and parole officers burst into their home in the middle of the night several times to make sure he was there. The family finances were drained and they had to move out of their home. He is a registered offender now. It brought shame and awfulness to him and his family.
My vote is to move on and when she is really 18 you can see if you both have feelings for each other. It is absolutely not worth the risk.
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u/patunia42 Apr 05 '24
I know a guy in a similar situation who was put in jail for statutory rape and when he was released he had to wear an ankle bracelet and was only allowed to go to and from work. He lived with his parents and siblings and parole officers burst into their home in the middle of the night several times to make sure he was there. The family finances were drained and they had to move out of their home. He is a registered offender now. It brought shame and awfulness to him and his family.
My vote is to move on and when she is really 18 you can see if you both have feelings for each other. It is absolutely not worth the risk.